365 Life Lessons

365 Life Lessons

Refrain from Giving Advice When Someone Tells You Their Problems

Feb 11, 2025
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A common response when someone is telling you their problems is to give advice, are cheer them up.

However, usually, when someone is telling you their problems, or their grief, they just want to be heard.

In these situations, practice just listening.

Before you give advice, ask if the person speaking to you wants advice, or if they just want you to listen.

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